Sunday, October 31, 2010

trick or treat?


WHAT HAPPENED TO ALL THE TRICK OR TREATERS????


Maybe 12 kids stopped by my house today. Don't they understand that it's Sunday and thus double the hours they could be making bank on candy? It was incredibly disappointing to answer the door 6 times today.

Parents out there, is there any particular reason for the deflated numbers this year?

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

time wasting technique #1



Sometimes when I'm bored I surf the web. Not uncommon, especially as a procrastination technique in college. Sometimes though, I run out of ideas for sites to visit, as I'm sure you do. So, here's a new one for you to check out...

www.sothebysrealty.com

I LOVE to check it randomly to see the amazing, luxurious properties that are listed for sale. They have a tremendous number of pictures of each room and I love to day dream about the kind of parties I'd have there.

It's also fun to look up properties that are somewhere near you. Usually it requires a phone call and an appointment to get a look inside some great real estate, but on sothebys you can look around without ever leaving the couch!

Enjoy!!

my parents are home from Italy!! yay!

Sunday, October 24, 2010

can NOT wait to be a 22 year old again, and not a single working mother.

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

John Mayer

even though I think he's a disgusting human being (believing some rumors to be true - don't screw with Tay sweezy) ...

...this is my favorite song lyric of all time and hopefully give you a little insight to my perspective in life.

"no, it won't all go the way it should
but I know the heart of life is good."

and as a side not, if the rumors are true, then good for Taylor Swift for calling Mr. Mayer out for what he really is.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

what/who I hope to be dreaming about tonight

Seriously??? We need to get married, let alone date.

photo credit: details.com
(which also has a delicious article about him)

Sweet dreams everyone!

Monday, October 18, 2010

be kind to your workers

As the old saying goes, "You get more flies with honey." I very much believe this to be true although I sometimes have a difficult time using it with the people who are closest to me. Anyway, to make a long story short because it's late and I'm tired, be nice to the people who work for you.

This does not necessarily mean your underlings at your job, it could mean your child's teacher, the men working on your roof, or the mechanic who fixes your car. Life goes much, much more smoothly when you are gracious and courteous, even if the service you're receiving isn't as kind. What will likely happen is you'll have people who are happy to see, let alone work for you and the job will probably get done more efficiently, and hopefully more thoroughly.

When the men were working on our house during the renovations, my mom always had a pot of coffee and a plate of donuts for them. Necessary? no but they sure appreciated it. I believe this is true regardless of the amount of time the person works for you. A waiter or waitress may be with you anywhere from 20 minutes to 2 hours, and though he/she may not be the best you've had, it is always better to be nice. I could stray to the side of blackmail here by saying that rudeness will equal spit in your food, but I'll keep it classy and say that the main reason for being nice is just that. How many people do you think have been mean or short tempered with that person today? It may improve their day immensely if you just speak and act kindly and respectfully.

I know from working at the Polling Institute that just a phone attitude could affect my mood for an hour. Maybe I was taking it too personally, but if someone was nasty on the phone I fumed about it until someone was pleasant. Conversely, if I talked to an exceptionally nice person, even if they didn't give a survey, I hung up the phone with a smile and tried to pass the happy attitude on to the next person I spoke with.

Not only is it polite (which you know I love) but it's just plain nice to be kind to people. Pay it forward y'all and with that simple gesture you can be safe in the knowledge that you tried to make the world a better place today :)

Sunday, October 17, 2010

dear diary

dear diary,

i saw a really cute boy tonight. i've seen him before, we used to go to school together. he's one of the only people around my age that i ever see at church. i like that, especially because he goes even when his parents aren't there. tonight i noticed that we both have 2 younger sisters and a baby brother, we're pretty much in the same boat. they were all really cute together, you could tell they like hanging out with each other. it's really nice to see guys my age with that amount of maturity. not to mention that every one of them had a Giants shirt on. definitely, a winner. but, alas, he doesn't even know i'm interested - plus i'm pretty sure he has a girlfriend. oops!

So, now that you've all gotten an inside glimpse to my immature girliness, I will not tell you who he is even though I'm sure he'll never see this. Unfortunately, if he does end up reading this post, I'm pretty sure he'll know it's about him. (He's pretty smart)

Friday, October 15, 2010

disappointing doctor appointments

Today I had to go to the doctor. Lame, I know, but necessary. I dislike this doctor's office in particular because not only do they weigh me, but they take my blood, and most of the clientele are just plain rude. The rudeness, smelliness and overall outward appearance of most of the patients makes me question if I really need to be there.

I had a 9:30 appointment and I arrived at 9:15. The office opened at 9:00. I wasn't called from the waiting room until 10, and the doctor didn't appear until 10:15. I got back home at 11. This all doesn't seem like a significant amount of time, but as I was sitting there trying not to get a whiff of anyone sitting right next to me (when there were plenty of seats open, I might add) I thought about how difficult it is to fall a half hour behind in your patients when you've only been open for a half hour.

The doctor is a lovely man and he really cares about how I feel physically and mentally, but I would feel a whole lot better about the situation if it didn't take 2 hours for a 15 minute appointment. On top of all of this complaining, I hadn't eaten anything because the blood work required me to be fasting. To be honest, that's probably why I was so angry about the appointment in general.

Oh well, done with my rant... any readers have common experiences?

Thursday, October 14, 2010

apologies

Hello good friends...

My apologies for the lack of earth shattering posts lately. I've been mom-ing instead of blogging, and trying to plan for a super special secret surprise!

It's not just you that I'm lagging on... my correspondence really needs some attention too. I'm sorry pen pals!

Happy Anniversary Mom and Dad


Happy 25th Anniversary to my fantastic parents. Eamon and Eileen Kelly are celebrating their quarter century milestone on a 2 week trip through Italy. They're having an amazing time. They were married on Sunday October 13th, 1985. We wish them 50 more years of love and happiness!

ps... sorry this is a day late.

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

good luck miners!

also!!! Good Luck to the Chilean miners. I hope they all make it back to their families safely. For the record, my crippling claustrophobia would never allow me to consciously be anywhere near a mine, so the rescue efforts are giving me panic attacks.

how you know the holidays are coming.

This post is because I'm holiday season obsessed and so I notice every holiday reference as soon as fall starts. I'll go back to a few weeks ago, when it all began.

Approximately 3 weeks ago I saw the first holiday commercial of the season. It was for K-Mart layaway.
2 weeks ago my parents started receiving free packages of Christmas cards in the mail, in addition to requests for holiday donations.
Last week on the Today Show, the hosts made a reference to the approach of the season because the Rockefeller Ice Rink was opening for the first time. They also played one of my favorite songs, Skating by the Vince Guaraldi Trio in the background.
Also last week, the dictionary.com Word of the Day I receive in my email was Wassail... as in... Here we come a wassailing among the leaves so green. Here we come a wandering so fair to be seen. Love and Joy come to you and to you your wassail, too...

I'm sure a lot of you are not happy with this post or my "rushing" the holidays, but it makes me smile to think of the good things to come, and I can easily keep up this joy and anticipation for another 2 months.

Monday, October 11, 2010

In Charge...

My parents left today for an anniversary trip to Italy. They'll be gone for 2 weeks, leaving me in charge of the house and my younger brother and sister. I'm not at all worried (at this point) but I do think it will be a challenge. I lived on my own for about a year and a half but during that time I only had to take care of myself.

This trip is a celebration of multiple things for them. My mom turned 50 in March, they're 25th wedding anniversary is on Wednesday, October 13th, and my dad's birthday is coming up in February. It was really cute to see how excited they were to be going on vacation together. They're going all over Italy starting in Venice and ending in Rome. In between they'll see Florence, Naples, Capri, and Cinque Terre.

I'll have to make myself a schedule of things to do everyday so I make sure I don't miss anything! While they're at school everyday, I'll be babysitting for one family or another and those times are different every day. It's making me anxious just thinking about what to do everyday! I'll calm down though once I have it written out so I can see everything in some kind of order.

Of course I'm jealous of them but I'm so happy for them too, they're really going to have an amazing time - and I can't wait to see the pictures!

Thursday, October 7, 2010

Alaska: in a nutshell

This is not going to be my greatest post because I'm tired, but I've committed to this project and I really want to stay on track. So, I'll give you a little run down of my trip to Alaska this summer. It was a graduation gift from my fantastic godmother and I had an AMAZING time. We took a 7 day Holland America cruise northbound from Vancouver and once in Anchorage we did a 4 day land tour in Denali National Park.On the first day of our trip, September 4th, my mom drove us to Newark at 4:30AM for our 5 hour flight to Vancouver. We were so exhausted that day that we didn't do too much. We toured around a little bit but we were in bed by 9. This was the view from our hotel room, right across from the pier, with a flower and herb garden just outside the window.Day 1 (of the actual cruise) we boarded the ship as early as we could because Why Not? It meant we would be in our rooms quicker and we could explore the ship and try to find our way around. The check in was a well oiled machine and getting through was a breeze - hardly any lines! We were on board the Statendam which is a smaller mid-sized ship that holds about 1,200 passengers. As it was the first cruise ship I was ever on, I was amazed by EVERYthing. This is the fountain in the atrium. Day 2 - day at sea. We cruised along the coast of Canada on our way up to the first port - Ketchikan. This was the day I first discovered that I was susceptible to seasickness and that my equilibrium was better maintained outside on the deck where I could get fresh air and actually see what was making my insides feel wavy. In my defense, there were quite a few people who felt sick because the water was really rough. This was also the first formal night which I was really excited about. I love any excuse to get dressed up - despite how uncomfortable it usually is. Here's my Aunt Cathy and I in our unintentionally matching formal wear.
Day 3: Ketchikan. I really liked Ketchikan. It was my first glimpse of Alaskan life and though it's a small town, it really doesn't get too much bigger anywhere else in Alaska. We had booked a specialized excursion through Holland America that took us to the Saxman Native Village and then to a Lumberjack Show. I found both of these extremely entertaining in very different ways. The Native American village was a very serious place, all of the people there were very focused on the preservation of their heritage. I learned a lot about what life is like in a tribe and I really enjoyed learning about the Totem Poles. The Great Alaskan Lumberjack Show was pure fun. I really didn't think the boys would be that cute but some of them were pretty good looking. They were funny and did a great job entertaining the audience. As someone from a metropolitan part of the East Coast, tree climbing and axe throwing were foreign but very amusing to watch. I would highly recommend going to see either, or both of these if you're ever in Ketchikan.



















Day 4
: Juneau. Alaska's capital is nothing like any other state capital, but I did some AMAZING things there. I would have to say it was my favorite day on the trip. In the quest to cross things off my bucket list, as well as fulfill childhood dreams, I went dog sledding. No, no, wait, that's not all... I took a helicopter to a glacier and went dog sledding on 500 year old ice. Unbelievable you say? IIIIIII know! It was really the experience of a lifetime. My aunt didn't want to fly in the helicopter so I went out to the camp with a group of Asian tourists. It was my first helicopter tour and I was so amazed by the views I can honestly say I wasn't scared at all. (It probably helps that I jumped out of a plane 2 months ago) The dogs absolutely LOVE running and you can tell that Alaska Icefield Expeditions really care about the health and well being of their dogs.














When my aunt and I met up again in town we took the Mt. Roberts tramway. It provided some great views but there really wasn't much to do at the top. That night, back on the boat, I participated in a sing-along game show and placed second. In the second round of the competition they dressed me up as Dolly Parton and I had to sing 9 to 5 (which I don't really know) the other guy was dressed up as Elvis and sang Hound Dog. Come On! Who doesn't know the words to Hound Dog?


Day 5: Skagway. This is literally a one road town. It used to be a gold mining base camp- lawless and full of crazy characters. The streets are lined with boardwalks and false front buildings in a variety of bright colors. We decided to take a Ghosts and Good Time Girls tour in the morning and it was delightful! Our tour guide was hysterical and she took her job very seriously involving and amusing our little group the whole time. I loved all of the history I learned from this highly entertaining walk around. Later in the afternoon we went to a musical performance called The Days of '98 Show which was all about Soapy Smith the famous con artist. This show was also very entertaining. The cast was extremely talented and I found myself laughing out loud multiple times throughout the performance. All in all, I think if you do the right things in Skagway it can be a really entertaining place. There was some pretty good shopping there too!











Day 6: Glacier Bay National Park
. The sights here were indescribable the pictures I've taken can't even do justice. We were cruising through the area for most of the day so you never had a bad view. However, given the competitive nature of most human beings, it felt like everyone was crammed all the way to the front of the boat. It was pretty chilly out there but down on deck 6 you could grab a chair and a blanket and enjoy the beautiful views. Hearing the ice calve was like thunder but it was hard to pinpoint the spot on the glacier where the piece was falling off until you saw the wave coming up off the ice. We saw hundreds of seals hanging out on the ice and they did not seem at all concerned that there was a giant ship coming though their home.











Day 7: College Fjord. We had amazing views today too. It was very similar to Glacier Bay, but these glaciers were hanging glaciers which means they don't necessarily touch the water at the bottom. It was another great day to be outside and take in the natural wonders but the real highlight of the day was the dinnertime performance by the waitstaff in the dining room.



Day 8: Travel up to Denali National Park. We took an 11 hour bus ride from Seward to Denali National Park on a luxury tour bus. It was a very long trip but there were frequent stops and the bus was pretty comfortable. This was the transfer between the cruise and the land tour part of our vacation. Our guide told us that we were among his luckiest tour group this year because we had such a clear view of Mount McKinley. The mountain is the tallest in the country and is sometimes called Denali which is a Native American word for "The Tall One". We also stopped at Joe Reddington's Iditarod Trail Race Headquarters where I got to see ... Puppies!! They were adorable and so snuggly. The journey up was really enjoyable and so, so beautiful!











Day 9: Tundra Wilderness Tour Denali National Park. The park itself is bigger than the state of Rhode Island! We took a bus tour through the park and got to see some amazing things. It took about 8 hours but it totally did not feel like it. We saw so much wildlife!

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Badly Titled Cougartown

This week's Cougartown had me chuckling quite a bit. I won't go over the whole episode but a few of my favorite lines tonight:
  • Andy offers to provide protection for the neighborhood by flexing and calling himself "The Cuban Muscle Crisis"
  • Jules' new obsession (since Travis left for college) is a neighborhood watch program which she aptly titles "Taking Back the Sac" (as in cul-de-sac).
  • When Ellie and Andy are explaining Stan's routine to their nanny they scatter cheerios in his crib because when he gets hungry in the morning he won't cry and wake them up because he's hungry.
  • The entire jeans conversation with the girls was hilariously true. Who doesn't have a pair of jeans they can't sit in, or fasten by themselves.
  • The neighborhood watch turned into a "wine and spy" - enough said.
  • Bobby claims that half shirts look good on guys because "it's like a curtain coming up for a show".
  • Best of all, Travis wants his persona at school to be "a quiet bad ass, like Harry Potter". I love Harry Potter but I don't think trying to be like him at a non-magical school is the best goal to aspire to.
And! The 5 minute jam session at the end of the episode... I really think Andy is my favorite character.

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Tuesday, October 5, 2010

fancy decorating

Today while I was babysitting and Dara was napping I snagged a Pottery Barn Kids magazine off the counter. The cover had adorable children in Halloween costumes so I assumed it was a Holiday Special issue - I was right. As I flipped through the pages of gorgeously decorated homes filled with happy, beautiful families all I could think of was "Wow, when can this be my life?" Then I happened to look up at the TV and caught a teaser for Oprah's episode later this afternoon with Martha Stewart. The connection? Perfection.

What places like Pottery Barn, Restoration Hardware and my favorite, Ralph Lauren sell lifestyles, not just products. On the Thanksgiving page of Pottery Barn there's a tablecloth with a "prayer" embroidered around the edges and place card holders shaped like the Mayflower. It was adorable and I immediately wanted to buy one tablecloth and 6 mini-Mayflowers. Then I saw the prices and immediately rejected the idea. The sets make you forget that children's Thanksgiving tables should not be covered in WHITE tablecloths for obvious reasons.

Oprah was in awe of Martha's simple tips today, as was the whole audience (including my mom and I). Martha's home in Maine has a flower room and like 7 wall refrigerators. In the kitchen there were 2 sous chefs, who work for her company, helping her prepare a salad. It looked beautiful in the end but really? 3 people were needed to make that? There was also a flower arranger in the flower room who helped her make a beautiful display by trimming all of the stems before he handed them to her. Again, I ask, Really?

Writing this blog is when it clicked. Pottery Barn, Ralph Lauren and Restoration Hardware catalogs are a lot like what Martha's behind the scenes at home was like. Though they appear to be snapshots of perfect lives where everything is beautiful and runs smoothly and everyone is happy, they're actually staffed by a hundred other people behind the scenes. In order for our lives to be perfect like Christmas morning portrayed in PB kids we'd need 5 sous chefs preparing our glistening feast while we delightedly open neatly wrapped presents with our cute children in their matching pjs while the well-groomed dog sits quietly by the fire. It is such a beautiful image but so unattainable.

My Christmas mornings are perfect and they look nothing like an advertisement. (Maybe for Hefty garbage bags because of the enormous piles or wrapping paper strewn everywhere. 6 people is a lot to buy for.) But, I'm willing to bet that on Christmas morning, as the minutes are ticking by and you're smiling your face off, you're thinking that no moment could be more perfect. You're not thinking "I wish I had stacked the presents a little neater." or "Why can't the kids just sit still?" No, the perfection in our human moments comes from being so incredibly grateful for what we have in those magical moments like Christmas morning.

(But it really would be great to have some sous-chefs to cook the dinner so you could enjoy a few holiday specials on TV with the family.) We can all dream right Martha?

Monday, October 4, 2010

the buried life

I can't say enough about this show. It makes me laugh, cry, and marvel all within 30 minutes. If you don't catch it, you're making a huge mistake. Monday nights at 10:30 on MTV. I only wish my parents would understand how important it is to me. Essentially, 4 boys are on a journey to cross off all the items on their bucket list. For everything they cross off, they help a stranger cross something off of their own list. Some past successful endeavors have been to deliver a baby, tell a joke on late night, and PLAY BASKETBALL WITH PRESIDENT OBAMA. Along the way they've helped build a skate park memorial in a town in Kansas, reconnect family members, and even helped one girl see her mother's grave across the country.

Tonight the guys were crossing #59 off their list: Ask out the girl of your dreams. One of the boys chose Taylor Swift. So the episode was spent trying to get Duncan into the CMT awards so that he could ask Taylor on a date.

SPOILER ALERT! They get rejected at the front door but find an alternate way in. Duncan makes it all the way to Taylor in her seat (next to REBA!) and gives her his number with a very polite, "I'm sorry I didn't mean to interrupt you but if you could just text me and let me know if you ever want to go out one day..." She thanks him and puts the note in her dress. We find out at the end of the episode that she texted him back and TAYLOR SWIFT SAID YES. He was genuinely ecstatic it was really cute.

To add a bit of humor to the episode, another of the group, Dave, decided he'd try asking Carrie Underwood out for drinks. He somehow manages to get to her but she's sitting next to her giant hockey playing husband. Dave is kindly shut down and crestfallen says something like, "Well, that really didn't go according to plan. Sorry guys."

My dreams would be fulfilled if I could get on this show and help the guys complete their list while I check off mine. They need a little female touch. The biggest reward of all though, would be the ability to touch and change so many other people's lives. That would be amazing.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Go Giants!

also... WAY TO GO GIANTS!!
17-3 over the Bears with 9 sacks in the first half
turn the season around!

manners are for children Part 2

As a follow up to my Manners are for Children post, I turned to my trusty Emily Post encyclopedia.

It's honestly one of my favorite books EVER. I know this sounds lame, it is -a little bit- but it is so incredibly helpful that I turn to it at least once a month. Emily's daughter Peggy put together the book and the index is very comprehensive, but like an encyclopedia, it's divided up into sections.I went straight for the "Children and Teens" section to see how my ideas matched up to Madam Post's rules.
I'll quote from what she says and you can match them up to my earlier post. (In the future, I'll probably put the two in the same post together.)

"A guest's first duty is to show up on time and greet the host courteously.
Respect the host's home: No rough play. no peeking in drawers or handling valuables. No feet on the furniture." (sounds a little like Francine's home, no?)
Children should also: "Accept food that is served, Cooperate and participate in activities, Offer to help, Thank the host and leave on time."

I agree with all of the above. I do not have my own children (obviously) but this is how my siblings and I were expected to behave, and we did. It may seem like a lot of rules but in reality this is not a lot to expect from a child who is at least 8 years old.
Agree? Disagree? Shoot me a comment and let me know how you feel!

{It is also polite to cite the sources you use in any writing you do. So here, in MLA format is my recognition...}

Post, Peggy, and Emily Post. Emily Post's Etiquette. New York: HarperCollins, 2004. Print.

Saturday, October 2, 2010

THE cutest thing alive


I LOVE this puppy. His name is Boo and you can find him on here or @cuteoverload on twitter.

a tip for keeping fresh flowers

When someone (your beaux, a friend, a secret admirer) gives you flowers, it's a lovely gesture that we want to keep on our tables for as long as possible. The same is true even if you cut the flowers from your backyard garden. I've come across a lot of hints and tips on how to increase the longevity of your fresh flowers and I've pretty much combined bits and pieces from a variety of sources. My dad buys my mom "Friday flowers" every week and I tried to teach her how to put them together last night.
Step 1: Cut all of the stems at an angle. (She says you're supposed to cut them under running water, I've never done this but it can't hurt.)
Step 2: Fill your vase 3/4 of the way full of room temperature water. Strip off all the leaves that will be below the water line. They will rot if you leave them in the water, causing the flowers to rot more quickly.
Step 3: Pour 1 tablespoon of sugar (white, granulated) into the water followed by 1 tablespoon of vinegar. Mix it up until dissolved. The vinegar kills bacteria in the water and the sugar nourishes the plant.
Step 4: Arrange your flowers and make sure to fish out any leaves that fall into the water.

I don't bother with flower food or anything like that because this list keeps the flowers alive for a surprisingly long time! Happy Arranging!

Friday, October 1, 2010

manners are for children

What I mean by "manners are for children," is that they should be learned at a young age. My parents harped on my manners when I was little, to the point that sometimes I wanted to be rude, just to see the shock on their faces. Now though, I am proud of myself when someone compliments them. It's much easier to teach kids habits like these when they're little.

Today I was babysitting my favorite little kids, Charlie (3) and Lauren (17 months). As we were cleaning up the basement, the show "Olivia" came on the television in the background and we sat to watch. I was amazed at the subject matter! Normally kids shows are about sharing and playing nice but today, Olivia was agonizing over table manners. Her younger brother was messy at the table and her friend Francine apparently comes from a background where that's not allowed. Francine also "never eats the same thing twice in one year" and brought her lunch to school in a bento box. Olivia is intrigued and Francine invites her over for dinner one night.

As Olivia gets excited to dine in a more civilized place than her home, her mother reminds her to "Be polite, and return the information." As Olivia imagines a fancy girl like Francine eating at the dinner table where her brother slurps spaghetti, she pictures her family as cave people who eat off of rocks. Needless to say, in Olivia's imagination, Francine runs away screaming.

Once Olivia arrives at Francine's house she discovers there are a lot of rules that are not necessarily kid friendly. Such as, "No yelling, No footprints in the house, No fresh flowers in the house (the petals make a mess), No laughing at the dinner table and most significantly, No spilling!" Unfortunately, Olivia drops a Brussels sprout and she and Francine are sent to sit in a corner of the room at a "kiddie table"

Moral of the Story: Manners are a terrific thing to have and you don't need to be "fancy," or "special," to display them. It was very thoughtful of Olivia to bring flowers to Francine's mother in thanks for the invite, and it was polite to invite Francine to come for dinner at her house too.

Some basic manners from this 20 minute TV show were not even present among the 16-18 year old girls who were at my house for my sister's pasta party on Wednesday. They were supposed to bring drinks or dessert, my mom did all the cooking (for 17 kids). When dinner was over, there was one box of cookies for dessert because as my mom so eloquently said, "Some of them just came in swinging their arms." It is polite to bring SOMETHING to a person's house when they are doing something for you, whether it's a meal, a sleepover, or just a swim in the pool. You should never show up empty handed. In an older setting these are considered hostess gifts, but for younger children, they are thank you gifts.